When two people experience the same experience
And they try after to verbalize the same experience that they had experienced,
The use different words.
The way that they code the same experiences is completely different.
Both of them , during the same experience they were being attired by different things. The had noticed different things. They observed the details that the were interested in. They retain the information that are futile or interesting to them.
So after when they put into words the same experience, the same experience is not the same in the end. The verbalization of it, the linguistic coding prioritises some specific things and as a result is a deficient representation of the mutually lived experience. But anyway there are so many details and information that are left out when you try to talk or describe an experience. It's a selective process . So , its by default deficient as sometimes we lack in words to describe some things or we forcibly make our experience shorter out of cultural brevity necessity
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